Touch communicates interest and love but different kinds of touch elicit different kinds of emotional response from you. You must know your limit and stay within them. Kissing, touching and petting are always dangerous grounds to tread on. don’t start something that is guaranteed to end in disaster.
Don’t think that having sex with him will make him to love you the more or satisfying his sexual cravings or getting pregnant for him. Trying to manipulate , control and seduce him through sex will always prove very counter productive.2 Samuel 13, amnon, the son of David had illicit sex with woman. Immediately after the act, the bible recorded that he hated her with a passion. The sex did not bring them any closer, rather, it drove them apart.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
He may think that you really belong to him, seriously anything can happen from that moment on. Men that rape their date look very normal until it happens. NOTE don’t give anybody that opportunity. remember to keep yourself respect very important. Carry your self with every dignity. Guild yourself with integrity. If you sleep over, the next thing that will be occurring in mind will be sex and that girl friend is the beginning of the road to destruction for that relationship.
Having sex with is not trying to prove your love to him, your value is not in sex you offer him, but your soul which you give to him, if he is trying or insisting on having sex with you, then maybe he is not the one for you, you must give definition to your boundaries’ at the beginning of your relationship before things get out of hand learn to say NO and stick to it.(period)
Men are very physical. A man sees you in gorgeous dress and immediately starts thinking sex. Never expose your nakedness to him for any reason. Let him take you to the alter first.
Never try to play sexual games with him, you not object of sex. don’t give him the impression that you are.
Often some men sees you in attractive dress, and he is already arouse, but for you to be aroused most times it involves words and touch. When a man you really likes starts touching your soul with his words, a sexual chemistry may be created which may lead to sexual arousal. Engaging in long conversation with a man you don’t want to have serious relationship with is dangerous because before you know it, both of you may begin to relate on an intimate and deep emotional level you never intended.
Having sex with is not trying to prove your love to him, your value is not in sex you offer him, but your soul which you give to him, if he is trying or insisting on having sex with you, then maybe he is not the one for you, you must give definition to your boundaries’ at the beginning of your relationship before things get out of hand learn to say NO and stick to it.(period)
Men are very physical. A man sees you in gorgeous dress and immediately starts thinking sex. Never expose your nakedness to him for any reason. Let him take you to the alter first.
Never try to play sexual games with him, you not object of sex. don’t give him the impression that you are.
Often some men sees you in attractive dress, and he is already arouse, but for you to be aroused most times it involves words and touch. When a man you really likes starts touching your soul with his words, a sexual chemistry may be created which may lead to sexual arousal. Engaging in long conversation with a man you don’t want to have serious relationship with is dangerous because before you know it, both of you may begin to relate on an intimate and deep emotional level you never intended.
Monday, September 14, 2009
problems. You must keep it in mind that you just met him, he also has problems of his own and he is not responsible for any yours. don’t tell him about all the bad relationships you have been involved in, how you were used and dump by men he is not counselor, don’t scare him away with all your crazy stories you have in your family. Let him discover your assets before he discover you liabilities.
Don’t always table and discuss him with your girl friends if you want your relationship to grow and lead into marriage. Learn to be discrete.
Don’t spend money on him or give him huge loans in attempt to win him over. What you will create is a man who is committed to you because of your money. Love cannot bought with money. Give his love time and room to grow. don’t trap him with premarital sex. It is guaranteed to backfire on you. The way you got his love, is the way you will maintain it. Men love to feel in charge. If you don’t make him feel that way, another woman gladly will and he will most probably end up with her. Sex is gift from God for married couples , you have to know that it really comes with a lot of responsibility, make your stand about it and let it be known, you are ready to get married and you wont fool around with sex. Men tend to be very evasive about sex until they have made attempt on you. Let him know that you are not going to have sex with him until after marriage.
Don’t stay over his place any reason, if you don’t have a ride, ask him to drive you home. Or call a taxi for you. If you stay over.
Don’t always table and discuss him with your girl friends if you want your relationship to grow and lead into marriage. Learn to be discrete.
Don’t spend money on him or give him huge loans in attempt to win him over. What you will create is a man who is committed to you because of your money. Love cannot bought with money. Give his love time and room to grow. don’t trap him with premarital sex. It is guaranteed to backfire on you. The way you got his love, is the way you will maintain it. Men love to feel in charge. If you don’t make him feel that way, another woman gladly will and he will most probably end up with her. Sex is gift from God for married couples , you have to know that it really comes with a lot of responsibility, make your stand about it and let it be known, you are ready to get married and you wont fool around with sex. Men tend to be very evasive about sex until they have made attempt on you. Let him know that you are not going to have sex with him until after marriage.
Don’t stay over his place any reason, if you don’t have a ride, ask him to drive you home. Or call a taxi for you. If you stay over.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
How you present yourself determine how people will treat you.
You are a virtuous woman with self respect, dignity and integrity. Prove to him that you are not in the relationship for what you can get or his money, but for what you can contribute to his life. Even if he is millionaire, he wants to be sure that you are going to make his life as a married man very happy and successful.
Don’t put yourself in an awkward financial situation that always requires him bailing you out. For your relationship to succeed, you must strive to be financially independent if you presently are not.
Avoid handling his financial matter until you get to know each other better. Let him organize his own finances himself. When he ask you for advice, gladly give it to him.
Looking at his picture album and quizzing him over every beautiful woman you see him with could lead to a big problem. He may think that you are very insecure, jealous and embarrass him in front of his long time friends in his life. Act very secure even when you feel threatened.
Don’t act paranoid. Not every woman you see with him wants to have a relationship with him. You must realize that before you came into the picture, he had some friends in his life.
Don’t act desperate. You want to attend every function with him. Take all his calls and try to control his itinerary. He may get fed up with you very soon. Give him his space.
Don’t turn him into an emotional dumping ground for all your
Don’t put yourself in an awkward financial situation that always requires him bailing you out. For your relationship to succeed, you must strive to be financially independent if you presently are not.
Avoid handling his financial matter until you get to know each other better. Let him organize his own finances himself. When he ask you for advice, gladly give it to him.
Looking at his picture album and quizzing him over every beautiful woman you see him with could lead to a big problem. He may think that you are very insecure, jealous and embarrass him in front of his long time friends in his life. Act very secure even when you feel threatened.
Don’t act paranoid. Not every woman you see with him wants to have a relationship with him. You must realize that before you came into the picture, he had some friends in his life.
Don’t act desperate. You want to attend every function with him. Take all his calls and try to control his itinerary. He may get fed up with you very soon. Give him his space.
Don’t turn him into an emotional dumping ground for all your
Monday, September 7, 2009
Mind yourself, until you prove his integrity. don’t tell him everything about yourself until he proves his commitment to you
When you go out on a date, let him give try to impress you; give him room to talk. He wants to win you over, if you like him. give him the opportunity to do so.
Please two of you should not have the same joint accounts . Maintain your account. Keep your own money until you get to know him, even, then, be very discreet in your financial affairs, you are not yet married.
Don’t ask him of money, if the need be that you needed the money, Look for alternatives to solve your financial challenges. don’t turn him into your bank account making withdrawals anytime you feel like it may compromise your integrity and make it very difficult for you to stand by your purity principles. When a man begin to solve all your financial problems, one day he may begin to make sexual overtures and that is the end of that relationship if you don’t want to compromise your faith.
When you get to his house, remember his house is not your restaurant. No matter how generous he is, he is not your chief. When you go out for a meal, don’t order the most expensive item on the menu unless he insist on you trying it out. The bible says in proverbs23 that when you are dining watch what you eat because the meal itself sometime may be a test may be detrimental to your relationship and bring it to an untimely end.
When you go out on a date, let him give try to impress you; give him room to talk. He wants to win you over, if you like him. give him the opportunity to do so.
Please two of you should not have the same joint accounts . Maintain your account. Keep your own money until you get to know him, even, then, be very discreet in your financial affairs, you are not yet married.
Don’t ask him of money, if the need be that you needed the money, Look for alternatives to solve your financial challenges. don’t turn him into your bank account making withdrawals anytime you feel like it may compromise your integrity and make it very difficult for you to stand by your purity principles. When a man begin to solve all your financial problems, one day he may begin to make sexual overtures and that is the end of that relationship if you don’t want to compromise your faith.
When you get to his house, remember his house is not your restaurant. No matter how generous he is, he is not your chief. When you go out for a meal, don’t order the most expensive item on the menu unless he insist on you trying it out. The bible says in proverbs23 that when you are dining watch what you eat because the meal itself sometime may be a test may be detrimental to your relationship and bring it to an untimely end.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Grounded rules for dating.
RULES FOR DATING.
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Before you commit yourself into any kind of marital commitment, get to know this man well. Get to be friends first then develop relationship.
Maybe both of you met, both of you responded on an emotional level, you were attracted to each other like magnets, in spite of your difference. Dating gives you the opportunity to deliberately asses his merits, if he is good enough for you.
Get to interact and fellowship on a spiritual, mental. Psychological and emotional level. Intimacy on these levels must be worked at if you want your relationship to succeed.
Let it be occurring to you, that you have your own life to live. don’t plan your whole life around this man until you he has shown you total commitment. You should therefore plan your outings.
Avoid unscheduled outings that clash with your own plans. Let him call you ahead of time to inform you of his intentions. at the beginning of your relationship it may seem like fun because you are just getting to know each other, but later on it will because he does whatever he likes and you gave him that power.
You don’t really know this guy, Avoid late night outings. when you are just starting out. and the reason why are dating is to get to him better. don’t create problems for yourself.
You must study him, to know who he is, test him to know if he keeps his word and if he really he is committed to you. You must however not major on his weakness but on his strengths. Can you spend the rest of your life with him, the way he is in spite of his weakness?
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Before you commit yourself into any kind of marital commitment, get to know this man well. Get to be friends first then develop relationship.
Maybe both of you met, both of you responded on an emotional level, you were attracted to each other like magnets, in spite of your difference. Dating gives you the opportunity to deliberately asses his merits, if he is good enough for you.
Get to interact and fellowship on a spiritual, mental. Psychological and emotional level. Intimacy on these levels must be worked at if you want your relationship to succeed.
Let it be occurring to you, that you have your own life to live. don’t plan your whole life around this man until you he has shown you total commitment. You should therefore plan your outings.
Avoid unscheduled outings that clash with your own plans. Let him call you ahead of time to inform you of his intentions. at the beginning of your relationship it may seem like fun because you are just getting to know each other, but later on it will because he does whatever he likes and you gave him that power.
You don’t really know this guy, Avoid late night outings. when you are just starting out. and the reason why are dating is to get to him better. don’t create problems for yourself.
You must study him, to know who he is, test him to know if he keeps his word and if he really he is committed to you. You must however not major on his weakness but on his strengths. Can you spend the rest of your life with him, the way he is in spite of his weakness?
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Dating
GOING OUT GETTING COMMITTED.
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In a relationship there is this difference between your casual male friend and the guy, whom you may consider getting serious relationship with. Now is a good time to know who is what to you. don’t enter into serious, marriage bound relationship because,[ a ]you thought or felt like having one[ b] or may be, you are very lonely and needed someone to keep you company. [c] because all your friends have serious relationships, so you thought you needed your own relationship too [d] may be you want to show your friends that you can get a guy to be crazy over you. [e] your friends force you into it by setting you up with guy. [f] the guy is very rich and has promised to take care of you. [g] the guy says he really loves you and showers you with all kinds of gift. don’t be quick to accept gifts, they may be the burial ground of all your relationships,[ h] people question your sexuality and you want to prove that you are a beautiful, healthy, heterosexual sister. Your girlfriends may begin suspecting that you are a lesbian, or God forbid, even celibate. [l] may be you love children and you want to start having them as soon as possible. [j] you want financial security and Avery rich guy , a good house to live, and lots of spending money and even take good vacation when ever you like. [k] you want to bear the title of Mrs. So and so; you know, get some respect. [l] an authority figure in your life; your pastor. Bishop, parent, lecture, boss etc, pressurize you to get into it .[m] you have very strong libido or sex drive and marriage is the only scripturally acceptable avenue to fulfill that need in your life [n] you want to settle down. [o] you are a single parent and you need a strong and supportive father figure for your child. [p] your biological clock is ticking you are getting old, and it maybe too late for you to have babies.[ q] you want to escape living with your parents. [r] you want to re- live a romantic fantasy you read in a novel. [s] you have all this money and you want somebody to enjoy it with.
Then, if all these are the reasons that you want a relationship, then you are very wrong. What are the right reasons for starting good relationship? You should enter a relationship when you are spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and financially prepared and mature to get married. if you are not prepared, a million other reasons will only terminate frustration, hurt, bitterness, and broken engagements. If you are not prepared, you will attract unserious people, who will become a major hindrance to the serious minded guy who is mature and prepared, you cannot cheat nature; if you are looking for someone you can use to solve any of the above problems and a thousand others, you will attract a guy who is looking for someone to use too. Until you change you will keep on attracting the people who will cause you pain. Do YOU NEED SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.
Do you need serious relationship, Pray ask the lord to look the qualities that will bring out the best in your relationship.
Take a note and Write a detailed list of the qualities you want to see in this man you intend to spend the rest of your life with. after writing this list, pray over it daily until you see it answered.
A man who is already married is not who you are looking for. No matter how attracted you are to a married man, no matter how caring he is, it will never work. He is unavailable; look somewhere else for a single and unavailable. However if you persist in going after married men, you will definitely end up with a broken heart and a bad reputation.
Go out to places . occasion where the kind of man you desire could probably be. Become active in a department you like in church.
Don’t dress to kill unless you want to attract a user or abuser into your life. Look good not cheap. A guy is first attracted to you by what you wear; look best.
Make it habit to be friendlier with people, it could open the opportunity for a relationship.
When you locate the man you have believed for. let him be aware of you. DON’T be forward, pushy, aggressive or flirtatious. Do you have chemistry; or are you forcing it.
Love never occurs at first sight. If you think you fell in love with him the moment you saw him, it is probably infatuation. Be careful not to build your future on a strong emotional rush that is temporal, untested by time or principles. Let your feelings be tested by time. The question you ask yourself is when l get to know him, will I still want him?
If he likes you, he will give you attention and spend time talking with you, he will be very interested in knowing you, leave him to the chase. You must learn to distinguish between a man who is just having a polite, social conversation with you and one who likes you.
Men are first attracted to you physically, but it must not end there. for you to have a healthy relationship, you must connect on the emotional and spiritual levels of intimacy. If all he likes about is your looks and your body, it is dangerous ground to build a relationship on. He may like what he sees, but that doesn’t mean he is ready to commit to you, and a healthy relationship is all about commitment if all you have to offer a guy is your beauty and your body that relationship is bound to fail.
Why does a man marry a woman confined to a wheel chair? He must see and desire something more her body [proverbs 31;30] a great relationship is not sustained by sex. A man must get something from you that he can’t get elsewhere; that is character. Work on yourself spiritually, mentally and emotionally If you desire to have a great relationship. if you find those tips helpful you can learn a lot more by visiting www.attractive-ladies.blogspot.com.
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In a relationship there is this difference between your casual male friend and the guy, whom you may consider getting serious relationship with. Now is a good time to know who is what to you. don’t enter into serious, marriage bound relationship because,[ a ]you thought or felt like having one[ b] or may be, you are very lonely and needed someone to keep you company. [c] because all your friends have serious relationships, so you thought you needed your own relationship too [d] may be you want to show your friends that you can get a guy to be crazy over you. [e] your friends force you into it by setting you up with guy. [f] the guy is very rich and has promised to take care of you. [g] the guy says he really loves you and showers you with all kinds of gift. don’t be quick to accept gifts, they may be the burial ground of all your relationships,[ h] people question your sexuality and you want to prove that you are a beautiful, healthy, heterosexual sister. Your girlfriends may begin suspecting that you are a lesbian, or God forbid, even celibate. [l] may be you love children and you want to start having them as soon as possible. [j] you want financial security and Avery rich guy , a good house to live, and lots of spending money and even take good vacation when ever you like. [k] you want to bear the title of Mrs. So and so; you know, get some respect. [l] an authority figure in your life; your pastor. Bishop, parent, lecture, boss etc, pressurize you to get into it .[m] you have very strong libido or sex drive and marriage is the only scripturally acceptable avenue to fulfill that need in your life [n] you want to settle down. [o] you are a single parent and you need a strong and supportive father figure for your child. [p] your biological clock is ticking you are getting old, and it maybe too late for you to have babies.[ q] you want to escape living with your parents. [r] you want to re- live a romantic fantasy you read in a novel. [s] you have all this money and you want somebody to enjoy it with.
Then, if all these are the reasons that you want a relationship, then you are very wrong. What are the right reasons for starting good relationship? You should enter a relationship when you are spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and financially prepared and mature to get married. if you are not prepared, a million other reasons will only terminate frustration, hurt, bitterness, and broken engagements. If you are not prepared, you will attract unserious people, who will become a major hindrance to the serious minded guy who is mature and prepared, you cannot cheat nature; if you are looking for someone you can use to solve any of the above problems and a thousand others, you will attract a guy who is looking for someone to use too. Until you change you will keep on attracting the people who will cause you pain. Do YOU NEED SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.
Do you need serious relationship, Pray ask the lord to look the qualities that will bring out the best in your relationship.
Take a note and Write a detailed list of the qualities you want to see in this man you intend to spend the rest of your life with. after writing this list, pray over it daily until you see it answered.
A man who is already married is not who you are looking for. No matter how attracted you are to a married man, no matter how caring he is, it will never work. He is unavailable; look somewhere else for a single and unavailable. However if you persist in going after married men, you will definitely end up with a broken heart and a bad reputation.
Go out to places . occasion where the kind of man you desire could probably be. Become active in a department you like in church.
Don’t dress to kill unless you want to attract a user or abuser into your life. Look good not cheap. A guy is first attracted to you by what you wear; look best.
Make it habit to be friendlier with people, it could open the opportunity for a relationship.
When you locate the man you have believed for. let him be aware of you. DON’T be forward, pushy, aggressive or flirtatious. Do you have chemistry; or are you forcing it.
Love never occurs at first sight. If you think you fell in love with him the moment you saw him, it is probably infatuation. Be careful not to build your future on a strong emotional rush that is temporal, untested by time or principles. Let your feelings be tested by time. The question you ask yourself is when l get to know him, will I still want him?
If he likes you, he will give you attention and spend time talking with you, he will be very interested in knowing you, leave him to the chase. You must learn to distinguish between a man who is just having a polite, social conversation with you and one who likes you.
Men are first attracted to you physically, but it must not end there. for you to have a healthy relationship, you must connect on the emotional and spiritual levels of intimacy. If all he likes about is your looks and your body, it is dangerous ground to build a relationship on. He may like what he sees, but that doesn’t mean he is ready to commit to you, and a healthy relationship is all about commitment if all you have to offer a guy is your beauty and your body that relationship is bound to fail.
Why does a man marry a woman confined to a wheel chair? He must see and desire something more her body [proverbs 31;30] a great relationship is not sustained by sex. A man must get something from you that he can’t get elsewhere; that is character. Work on yourself spiritually, mentally and emotionally If you desire to have a great relationship. if you find those tips helpful you can learn a lot more by visiting www.attractive-ladies.blogspot.com.
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