Mind yourself, until you prove his integrity. don’t tell him everything about yourself until he proves his commitment to you
When you go out on a date, let him give try to impress you; give him room to talk. He wants to win you over, if you like him. give him the opportunity to do so.
Please two of you should not have the same joint accounts . Maintain your account. Keep your own money until you get to know him, even, then, be very discreet in your financial affairs, you are not yet married.
Don’t ask him of money, if the need be that you needed the money, Look for alternatives to solve your financial challenges. don’t turn him into your bank account making withdrawals anytime you feel like it may compromise your integrity and make it very difficult for you to stand by your purity principles. When a man begin to solve all your financial problems, one day he may begin to make sexual overtures and that is the end of that relationship if you don’t want to compromise your faith.
When you get to his house, remember his house is not your restaurant. No matter how generous he is, he is not your chief. When you go out for a meal, don’t order the most expensive item on the menu unless he insist on you trying it out. The bible says in proverbs23 that when you are dining watch what you eat because the meal itself sometime may be a test may be detrimental to your relationship and bring it to an untimely end.