Monday, September 14, 2009

problems. You must keep it in mind that you just met him, he also has problems of his own and he is not responsible for any yours. don’t tell him about all the bad relationships you have been involved in, how you were used and dump by men he is not counselor, don’t scare him away with all your crazy stories you have in your family. Let him discover your assets before he discover you liabilities.
Don’t always table and discuss him with your girl friends if you want your relationship to grow and lead into marriage. Learn to be discrete.
Don’t spend money on him or give him huge loans in attempt to win him over. What you will create is a man who is committed to you because of your money. Love cannot bought with money. Give his love time and room to grow. don’t trap him with premarital sex. It is guaranteed to backfire on you. The way you got his love, is the way you will maintain it. Men love to feel in charge. If you don’t make him feel that way, another woman gladly will and he will most probably end up with her. Sex is gift from God for married couples , you have to know that it really comes with a lot of responsibility, make your stand about it and let it be known, you are ready to get married and you wont fool around with sex. Men tend to be very evasive about sex until they have made attempt on you. Let him know that you are not going to have sex with him until after marriage.
Don’t stay over his place any reason, if you don’t have a ride, ask him to drive you home. Or call a taxi for you. If you stay over.

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