Grounded rules for dating.

RULES FOR DATING.
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Before you commit yourself into any kind of marital commitment, get to know this man well. Get to be friends first then develop relationship.
Maybe both of you met, both of you responded on an emotional level, you were attracted to each other like magnets, in spite of your difference. Dating gives you the opportunity to deliberately asses his merits, if he is good enough for you.
Get to interact and fellowship on a spiritual, mental. Psychological and emotional level. Intimacy on these levels must be worked at if you want your relationship to succeed.
Let it be occurring to you, that you have your own life to live. don’t plan your whole life around this man until you he has shown you total commitment. You should therefore plan your outings.
Avoid unscheduled outings that clash with your own plans. Let him call you ahead of time to inform you of his intentions. at the beginning of your relationship it may seem like fun because you are just getting to know each other, but later on it will because he does whatever he likes and you gave him that power.
You don’t really know this guy, Avoid late night outings. when you are just starting out. and the reason why are dating is to get to him better. don’t create problems for yourself.
You must study him, to know who he is, test him to know if he keeps his word and if he really he is committed to you. You must however not major on his weakness but on his strengths. Can you spend the rest of your life with him, the way he is in spite of his weakness?