RELATIONSHIPS.

RELATIONSHIPS.
Almighty God made us to be for connection. For you to be hale and healthy human being. You require healthy relationships in your life.
People may bring out the best or worse in you.
Don’t Chose friends because of friend sake be very careful in chosen your friends, what will determine the kind of person you will be in five, ten years from now, is the kind of friends you keep.
It has always been said, that Life is a matter of your choice. don’t let anybody force an unwanted friendship on you.
Been close is no license for access. Access is the greatest gift you can give to anybody. Take note of whom you give to, because some one stays close to you, grew up in the same neighborhood with you, attended the same schools with you doesn’t give them the right to have access to you . If they are not the kind of people you want in your in world.
Remember Like attracts like. People see who you are with the kind of friends your keep.
Move along with people who are going in the same direction with you, people you share common interest and values with you .
Always be in a place where you are celebrated , not tolerated.
Learn act of initiating friendships with people you like or want to know. Learn to Show genuine interest in people.
Your circle of friends determine to a large extent what you become in life so, search for quality people who can be positive influences on you.
Look for people who are successful in their chosen fields of endeavour and do all it takes get them into your circle influence .
Always bear it in your mind Every friendships must have a purpose. Every relationship must have a focus. Avoid purposeless association.
There are there are three levels of relationship you need to cultivate in order to live balanced life. a, someone to look up to that’s is your mentor or role model; b, someone that look up to you, that is your protégé. c, someone who is your contemporary.
Learn to have mentors in business, career, marriage, etc. people you respect, who have the to listen to and counsel you.
To have quality people into your life, you must learn to develop an agreeable and pleasing personality. To be fun to be with. Be easy to get along with.
A contentious and argumentative disposition will definitely repel people from you faster than any other weakness you may possess.
Make it a habit to contribute POSITIVELY to the lives of all your friends both male and female and people you come across on your way in daily life.
You can begin to attract people into your life by improving your people skills, learn to smile when you meet or greet people, it tells them you are glad to see them, apologize when you are wrong; learn to use the universal neutralizer of negative emotions I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME; if you are a very critical person, learn to see the positive in people and situation, if you want to criticize, correct or rebuke anybody, do it privately, never in public, make people feel good when they are around you.
Be a solution provider. Problem solver, a peace maker, Above all be a woman of integrity. Being association with truth will draw more quality people into your life than any other positive trait you may possess
Treat each person with consideration, care and courtesy.