YOUR INNER LIFE.

YOUR INNER LIFE.
A relationship with the opposite sex is a serious step; it should never be taken for granted.
Before you agree to commit yourself to seeing anyone, you must be secure in yourself. To be single means to be whole, secure and stable;to be fulfilled, you must be at peace with yourself, love you for who you are. You need clarify your values. Develop your personal philosophy of life.
One of the benefit of being single is that you can serve god without distraction. The true test of of your spiritual is how much inner and outer peace you exude. spend time in God’s presence in prayer. without prayer life, every other attempt at knowing God will be frustrating. It is in the place of prayer that you develop an intimacy with God’s spirit. Develop a prayer routine that you can follow easily. The quality of your spiritual life will determine the general tone your life. Spend time in silence and meditation.
God will reveal your values and worth to you as you stay in fellowship with his spirit. Your devoution to God should never be because of what you want to get from him. some ladies are active in church until they get married, then the church become secondary. Integrity demands that you should be true to yourself; are you serving God because you are looking for a husband or you really love him for who he is God knows the difference. Be yourself.
Love yourself. Get acquainted with the real you; your abilities, your likes and dislike, your passion and your dream. Learn to be happy now because your happiness can only be found in you.
Develop your intuition. Your ability hear accurately from God in the place of prayer will determine if you are between the ages of 18 and 30, you will soon make you three major choices in your career, your marriage partner and your life’s principles, values and philosophy. Now is the time to pray about it.
Develop attitude of gratitude. Learn to be thankful for the good things of life.
There are there are three levels of relationship you need to cultivate in order to live balanced life. a, someone to look up to that’s is your mentor or role model; b, someone that look up to you, that is your protégé. c, someone who is your contemporary.
Learn to have mentors in business, career, marriage, etc. people you respect, who have the to listen to and counsel you.
To have quality people into your life, you must learn to develop an agreeable and pleasing personality. To be fun to be with. Be easy to get along with.
A contentious and argumentative disposition will definitely repel people from you faster than any other weakness you may possess.
Make it a habit to contribute POSITIVELY to the lives of all your friends both male and female and people you come across on your way in daily life.